Life Secrets

02.

Opinion from Annonymous.

“I have a boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost 3 years. But one semester I had a classmate who I never talked to. But everytime we look at each other, it’s completely different. Like, he’s telling me ‘something’. It was 2 years ago and up to now I cant stop thinking bout him. Everytime we see each other nothing’s changed, we still look at each other that way. Everytime I try to break up with my boy, he just pleads and stuff. There’s no way out. My real problem is, am I just fantasizing things? Or even imagining?”

It definatly sounds like you’ve got a tricky situation on your hands there! Have you spoke to the guy in your class yet? It sounds as if you’ve fallen into lust with someone who is a mystery to you. If you’re not happy with your current boyfriend, dont lead pleading get in the way of a break-up. Obviously consider what you’re doing, and make sure you actually know you dont want to be with him anymore. Talk to the ‘class guy’ too. See what he’s like. There’s no harm in conversation when you’re in a relationship, and you might realise this mystery guy is not who you think he is. 2 years is a long time to be having these feelings, especially whilst being commited to your boyfriend. So either way, you have to make a sacrifice. I’d like to hear more about this and what you decide to do, so feel free to contact back. x