Life Secrets

First post!

Confession from Sarah;

“One of my good friends has a boyfriend. I’ve never really liked him, but when i was drunk at a party back in January he tried it on with me and i didn’t refuse. We only kissed, but i couldn’t bring myself to tell my friend about it as i felt it was all my fault. He keeps speaking to me on MSN and asking me to come over and a part of me wants to, but i know it would kill our friendship. I want to tell her, but i dont have the guts. My confession is that i’m sorry. :(“

This is a good one to start with Sarah, cause i can relate to this quite alot. Firstly, it wasn’t all your fault about the kiss. Yes, it was partly, but as they say, ‘it takes 2 to tango!’. Mistakes happen, but you’ve maybe left it too late for your friend to forgive you. If you told her when it happened, she would see what an honest person you are, and would be able to accept your apology. So if i’m honest, you’ll have alot of making up to do. If a part of you wants to meet up with the guy, you need to question your friendship with your friend. Put yourself in her shoes, what would you think if it was her doing it to you? You do need to tell her the truth, and you need to make her aware of her boyfriend inviting you round since. She deserves better, and you deserve a friend. Not a sleazy guy who doesn’t have a problem ’playing away’! x