Life Secrets
02.
Opinion from Annonymous.
“I have a boyfriend. We’ve been together for almost 3 years. But one semester I had a classmate who I never talked to. But everytime we look at each other, it’s completely different. Like, he’s telling me ‘something’. It was 2 years ago and up to now I cant stop thinking bout him. Everytime we see each other nothing’s changed, we still look at each other that way. Everytime I try to break up with my boy, he just pleads and stuff. There’s no way out. My real problem is, am I just fantasizing things? Or even imagining?”
It definatly sounds like you’ve got a tricky situation on your hands there! Have you spoke to the guy in your class yet? It sounds as if you’ve fallen into lust with someone who is a mystery to you. If you’re not happy with your current boyfriend, dont lead pleading get in the way of a break-up. Obviously consider what you’re doing, and make sure you actually know you dont want to be with him anymore. Talk to the ‘class guy’ too. See what he’s like. There’s no harm in conversation when you’re in a relationship, and you might realise this mystery guy is not who you think he is. 2 years is a long time to be having these feelings, especially whilst being commited to your boyfriend. So either way, you have to make a sacrifice. I’d like to hear more about this and what you decide to do, so feel free to contact back. x
First post!
Confession from Sarah;
“One of my good friends has a boyfriend. I’ve never really liked him, but when i was drunk at a party back in January he tried it on with me and i didn’t refuse. We only kissed, but i couldn’t bring myself to tell my friend about it as i felt it was all my fault. He keeps speaking to me on MSN and asking me to come over and a part of me wants to, but i know it would kill our friendship. I want to tell her, but i dont have the guts. My confession is that i’m sorry. :(“
This is a good one to start with Sarah, cause i can relate to this quite alot. Firstly, it wasn’t all your fault about the kiss. Yes, it was partly, but as they say, ‘it takes 2 to tango!’. Mistakes happen, but you’ve maybe left it too late for your friend to forgive you. If you told her when it happened, she would see what an honest person you are, and would be able to accept your apology. So if i’m honest, you’ll have alot of making up to do. If a part of you wants to meet up with the guy, you need to question your friendship with your friend. Put yourself in her shoes, what would you think if it was her doing it to you? You do need to tell her the truth, and you need to make her aware of her boyfriend inviting you round since. She deserves better, and you deserve a friend. Not a sleazy guy who doesn’t have a problem ’playing away’! x
New to Tumblr!
So i thought i’d start something new, getting the idea from ‘postsecrets’, but this this is a little different.
If you have a question or opinion, a problem or need advice, want someone to talk to or have a confession, then this is where lifesecret comes in :)
Here, you can post me anything you want a reply to, and you’ll get one! Pretty simple, huh?
Fill out the lifesecrets form here (http://www.formspring.com/forms/?621159-1BNUDIAbK3) or follow the link on my page, and i’ll reply to you via a blog post, within 2 days with my answer/advice or whatever you’ve asked for. As this as just started, get all your friends to follow me please!
Thanks, and hope to hear some stories soon!
lifesecrets xo
